You always have at least one choice in any situation you find yourself in, and that is: How will you respond to it?
How you respond will depend on which of these beliefs you hold:
1) Do you believe you are a helpless victim of fate, or
2) Do you respond to your life situation and alter the direction, outcome by choosing what actions you will take and how you will interpret the situation?
If you believe in pure fate, I sincerely wish you the best, and that you will take comfort that the thing you wanted but do not have “was…